I can't log DME in the game right now because I have the Monria Fleet Manager in the game on the Yamato. It is our staff avatar specifically for the ship and travel services for our community. I won't be able to log DME into the game until about 21:30 game time or a little after. If you're available then, I can log her in and give you the starter kit.
You are correct in saying that I'm very busy, but that's the nature of my time as the Community Manager. This is a job for me, but it is my responsibility to manage and take care of our community while the boss (Anhithe) works mostly behind the scenes with our development plans, so ...
Anytime you need anything and it's not something that can be responded to in Monria chat in the game because our community is quite helpful, then absolutely PM me here or in the game with what you need. It's probably best to PM me here since I'm not in the game that often, and when I am, I am more than likely in work mode. Anny Thundergirl (a member of our Monria Media Team) works on projects with me, and quite often we're in the game sorting out specifics, so I may be on invisible, or Do Not Disturb during these times, but please, don't be afraid to leave me a message and let me know that you need something, it's my place to take care of the community.
Oh, and don't listen to your hubby.